Chicago Wedding Resource Spring/Summer 2018-2019

BANQUETS, RECEPTIONS, SHOWERS & PARTIES 28 | SPRING & SUMMER 2019 CHICAGO WEDDING & PARTY RESOURCE CHICAGOWEDDINGRESOURCE.COM Forget these Bridal Shower Rules Ignore these 3 old-school etiquette rules and create a bridal shower that’s right for you By Heather Dornhecker, CTWFeatures With bridal shower origins dating back to the late 1800s, it’s no surprise that today’s brides are doing away with old school shower traditions. Curious how to make the day your own? Here are 3 shower rules modern brides can totally break. RULE 1: IT’S A GIRLS ONLY PARTY Co-ed showers are becoming more popular among today’s equality-minded couples. Include the groom and other guys (boy- friends, uncles, whoever) in the festivities and make it a party that honors both you and your beau. Just make sure your future spouse is comfortable with it before send- ing out the invites. RULE 2: COUPLES NEED TO REGISTER FOR HOUSEWARES Who said couples have to register for fine china and monogramed towels, anyway? Shannon Egler, who married in 2014, regis- tered solely for mason jars, burlap, paints and other craft items so shower attendees could help make the wedding decorations on the spot, with wine and snacks in hand. “It was a great time!” says the Sycamore, Ill. bride. “Everyone loved seeing their work displayed at the ceremony and reception.” RULE 3: ONLY WEDDING GUESTS ARE INVITED Bridal shower invitations don’t have to stop at those who are invited to the wedding. This is especially true for couples who had to cut their wedding guest list short. Feel free to extend a bridal shower invite to all your nearest and dearest — they’ll likely be excited to still get a chance to celebrate with you. © CTW Features