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BANQUETS, RECEPTIONS, SHOWERS & PARTIES
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CHICAGO WEDDING & PARTY RESOURCE
CHICAGOWEDDINGRESOURCE.COMBigger isn’t always better, even when it comes
to weddings. Intimate weddings, with their
close-knit vibe, can be just as lavish and
elegant as bigger celebrations. Here are 3
expert tips for creating the small event of
your dreams.
1. KEEP THE GUEST LIST EXCLUSIVE
This may seem obvious, but your definition
of a small wedding may be different than
your fiancé’s, so first be sure you’re on the
same page.
Another factor to consider is the capacity of
your venue. This can help you nail down the
final head count. Once you’ve defined your
vision, start a list of must-have attendees with
the knowledge that you’ll have to make some
tough decisions. Having a more intimate
wedding signals that you will be intentionally
limiting the guest list, for whatever reason, so
guests won’t take it so personally if they don’t
get an invitation.
2. HAVE FUN WITH YOUR BUDGET
One major benefit of a smaller wedding is
that they usually cost less, giving you more
wiggle room in your budget.
Twenty thousand dollars for 200 guests
would typically involve paper goods and
a barbeque type affair, but $20,000 for 25
guests can provide an extremely elegant
dinner and tablescape at a premier location.
Consider putting the money you save
toward something that will make your day
memorable, like surprising your partner by
renting that antique truck or booking that
sought-after photographer.
3. CREATE A PERSONALIZED
EXPERIENCE
There are plenty of things that don’t change
when it comes to wedding planning, no
matter how big or small it is. One of the perks
of a small wedding, though, is the couple’s
ability to have a more personal connection
with each guest.
You can make your ceremony extra special
arranging seats in a circle for a more intimate
feel, passing out a candle for each guest to
hold as you exchange vows or asking each
guest to share a blessing. At the reception you
can keep the personal vibe going by having
an open seating plan or asking guests to share
marriage advice and relationship stories.
© CTWFeatures
Planning an Intimate
Wedding
You don’t need
hundreds of guests
for a great wedding.
Here’s how to
plan the perfect
small event
By Heather Dornhecker, CTW Features