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How to Make a Well-Dressed Man
Tuxedo and suit style tips for your spouse-to-be
By Anna Sachse, CTW Features
It’s pretty easy to argue that wedding dresses get more
attention from bridal publications than any other subject.
Think about it – when was the last time you saw a solo
groom on the cover of one of the bridal magazines lining
the racks at the supermarket?
Certainly, when it comes to wedding fashion, what the
groom will wear tends to get short shrift. But your future-
Mr. will be in a majority of the pictures, too. And admit it,
ladies, if he looks good, you’ll look even better. So set aside
the endless pictures of Vera’s and Monique’s for a moment,
and pay attention. Here are some tips to ensure your fellow
is also looking fabulous on your big day.
TUXEDO VS. SUIT
First and foremost, the groom should follow the lead of his
bride. His formalwear should match the style and formality
of what the bride is wearing, and thus the wedding itself.
For example, if the bride is wearing a short Cotton Bride
frock for a backyard daytime soiree, it might look a little
odd if the groom shows up in gloves, a bow tie and a tux
with tails.
In general, however, tradition dictates that standard black
tuxedos are appropriate for more formal affairs taking place
at or after 6 p.m., especially those held indoors. If your
ceremony is taking place earlier in the day but still has a
formal feel to it, the traditional dress code is referred to as
“morning dress,” and consists of a black or gray cutaway (or
“morning coat”) with tails, waistcoat and black-striped gray
trousers.
But these days the groom may prefer to wear a suit of his
own choosing, regardless of the time of day or location.
Perhaps a chic, modern gray pinstripe suit for an evening
party or a simple, classic navy three-button suit for a
daytime celebration. A khaki or white linen suit, or even
just a khaki pant with a linen shirt,
would be appropriate for a beach
wedding.
THE BEST CUTS AND COLORS
Modern tuxedos are generally cut
narrower to the body, single-breasted
with peaked lapels or a shawl collar
and either one or two buttons. Black is
traditional for tuxedos, and dark navy
or dark gray is common for suits. Most
designers have a tuxedo in their line, so
if there’s a particular brand of suit you
tend to prefer, check out their option.
Tailored tuxedos with flat-front trousers, a specialty formal
shirt without a bib or pleats and a regular cerimonia tie
instead of the bowtie and cummerbund or vest looks
fashionable. Consider a three button tuxedo, formerly the
domain of suits only, or try a tuxedo in a color other than
black, such as dark chocolate brown, charcoal gray or black
navy, with black lapel facings and braid down the trouser.
It’s a 100-percent custom look that separates the men from
the boys.
As to the rest of the formalwear ensemble, the shirt should
ideally complement the bride’s gown, whether that be white,
off-white or ivory. Wing collars are generally considered
a little more formal, but these days most men opt for
turndown. Cummerbund or vests, if worn, should either
match the jacket or facings material, or coordinate with
the wedding colors or bridesmaids’ dresses. If the groom’s
attire is otherwise traditional or staid, he can always make
a personal statement with the pattern or color of the tie.
If you’re on a budget, check out
TheTieBar.comfor quality
silk ties in a variety of colors for $15.
BUYING VS. RENTING
Whether or not you choose to buy depends on your
lifestyle. If you have the extra funds and think you might
wear the tuxedo or suit again to galas, charity events and
other weddings, then purchasing a high quality one that
fits you perfectly is a great investment. But renting is
likely more affordable, and may be preferable if you want
the entire wedding party to have a common look. Men’s
Warehouse has lots of reasonable options, and they are all
over the country.
WHEN TO GET IT
In general, if a groom wants a custom suit, go in at least two
months in advance. This allows four or five weeks for the
suit to be made and shipped, plus ample time to deal with
mishaps at customs and any necessary alterations. The same
time-frame is helpful even if you are renting, as what the
groom wears will likely dictate what the rest of his wedding
party wears.
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