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BANQUETS, RECEPTIONS, SHOWERS & PARTIES
30 | SPRING 2018
CHICAGO WEDDING & PARTY RESOURCE
CHICAGOWEDDINGRESOURCE.COMWith bridal shower origins dating back to
the late 1800s, it’s no surprise that today’s
brides are doing away with old school shower
traditions.
Curious how to make the day your own?
Here are 4 shower rules modern brides can
totally break.
RULE 1: IT’S A GIRLS ONLY PARTY
Co-ed showers are becoming more popular
among today’s equality-minded couples.
Include the groom and other
guys (boyfriends, uncles,
whoever) in the festivities
and make it a party that
honors both you and your
beau. Just make sure your
future spouse is comfortable
with it before sending out the
invites.
RULE 2: COUPLES
NEED TO REGISTER
FOR HOUSEWARES
Who said couples have to register for fine
china and monogramed towels, anyway?
One bride registered solely for mason jars,
burlap, paints and other craft items so shower
attendees could help make the wedding
decorations on the spot, with wine and
snacks in hand. It’s a great time, and everyone
will love seeing their work displayed at the
ceremony and reception.
RULE 3: ONLY WEDDING GUESTS
ARE INVITED
Bridal shower invitations don’t have to stop
at those who are invited to the wedding. This
is especially true for couples who had to cut
their wedding guest list short.
Feel free to extend a bridal shower invite to
all your nearest and dearest — they’ll likely
be excited to still get a chance to celebrate
with you.
© CTWFeatures
Heather Dornhecker, CTW Features
Ignore these 3
old-school etiquette
rules and create
a bridal shower
that’s right for you
Forget These
Bridal Shower Rules